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Dear Mr Bitter Guy, I need dating advice ...

Embaressing question but so be it. I was a virgin til i met my bf. When i mean virgin i mean never diong anything before that except kissing.

When we mess around, i am into him, but i am never "wet enough" to completely enjoy sex. It is usually slightly painful. and if i am wet at the beginning, it won't last for more than 10 minutes.

is this normal? am i abnormal or maybe not into him enough?

also he never ever ejaculates when messing around. only if he masterbates.

is he normal? is he into me?