Boyfriend hates his life ... maybe I hate his life too?

Dear Mr Bitter Guy, I need dating advice ...
I am a high school senior now. I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years. I really like him but he seems to always get mad or upset about something. He always complains about how he hates his life. I can't tell if I still love him or not. I care about him but I don't know if the spark is still there. I also feel obligated to the relationship because of the puppy we share and because all my stuff is at his place and I am too afraid of awkwardness to get it. I just would like some opinions on my situation.

Why doesn't this girl make it with the men?

Dear Mr Bitter Guy, I need dating advice ...

I am a 19-year old, well- educated, attractive, ambitious female. I noticed that average, unattractive, low class men only notice or compliment me when I am dressed down or wear tight inexpensive clothes.

When I dress casually, I receive more male attention. Men appear to be more relaxed around me when I do not appear perfect.

One day my hair was disheveled, and I still received lots of male attention. Conversely, when I dress up elegantly and fashionably, men either ignore me, sneer at me, or avoid me. They stare at me in awe as if I am an alien or new species. Is something wrong with me?

They don't even compliment me when I dress up. They just stare or frown at me. I ponder, “How can they look down upon me if I am presentable and confident?”

Typically, the men who do this are extremely unattractive, poor, and uneducated. For instance, once I had to take the bus. I looked really beautiful and fashionable that day. Some one even asked if I were a model. However, none of the men would sit by me. They just stared at me and walked by.

I do not want to sound pompous. But why do you think this happens? How would you feel average men scoffed at you, even though you looked your absolute best?

I can come off as unapproachable. I public, I typical have a stern facial expression and rigid posture. I have a strong presence and I walk with great confidence and force. But does this matter if you look nice? Are men insecure?

Janah