Dear Mr Bitter Guy, I need dating advice ...
im 22 and my bf is 28 we had a cyber affair for a year without meeting he agreed to it 1st then after we met he liked the way i look and etc but after sumtime he said he hates me for not meeting him then we settled that then he asked me for sex i m from an asian country and we do not have sex till marriage so i said no but now he hates me for it i think he is having a mental problem what shall i do?
Sunday, July 27, 2008
Cyber affair leads to real-life problems?
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Hi, I was really sad to read your email, I know you may not want to hear this but this guy is no good for you - you are both entitled to have your own views and beliefs about sex before or after marriage - and maybe they aren’t compatible but to have him abuse you about it he is showing you how immature he is and also how he will treat you in the future. I know it will hurt but hold your head up high and walk away - you are worth way more than being treated like this- good luck to you in the future and remember to believe in yourself and treat yourself the way you would like others to treat you :)
first of all your 22.
you don't have to be getting married at your young age.
especially to a guy who is old and bitter.
ditch him.
there are plenty of guys out there young and who also want to wait for sex until marriage, you just have to wait to find him. it wont take too long.
and as for the no sex before marriage...
either stick to your guns and find a nice traditional boy with the same thoughts
OR GO FOR IT
hell first times for girls are horrible anyway
find the first non-infected guy who's nice, put on a condom and use him for practice!
hell once you do find your guy, you'll be a hell of a lot happier if you can woo him in bed.
ditch the guy, get a lay then go find your mr right. it's the ultimate happy hour.
My pleasure to come across your blog and read it, keep posting.
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